Authored by: Creator on Sunday, August 07 2005 @ 08:54 PM UTC

And you let him treat you and the kids like that?! Excuse me, but that's really stupid. You shouldn't let anybody, least of all your husband, treat you like shit. It sounds like your husband is heading down a terrible road. If you don't get help, then I strongly suggest you get the fuck out of this shithole relationship before something really bad happens to you and/or your kids.

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Authored by: Anonymous on Monday, August 08 2005 @ 03:43 PM UTC

I'm not Dr. Phil, but sounds to me like your husband is suffering from depression. I'm sure he wasn't a fat lazy slob when you married him and you wouldn't have kept having babies by a man who ended up being impatient or abusive to you or your kids ( I hope). The stress might be within the home. Do you have a job and help pay the bills? Do you clean the house and cook a decent dinner? Does he have any personal time to unwind and do what ever he wants? Are you performing or trying new things in the bedroom. Maybe you aren't what he had hoped you would be either. Do you teach the kids to be respectful and obedient? Does he work long hours on a job he hates, and then comes home to demands, from you, the kids, the bill collectors? I'm married and I know for a fact the woman is the heart of the home and if the good times out weigh the bad there might be something YOU could do. Say great things everyday to make him feel like he's in control. Make him feel sexy even if he's not. Cook delicious low carb or low fat dinners, pack his lunch. What works on you will work on him. Put the kids in bed at a decent hour and concentrate on pleasing him, maybe he'll look less to his friends for appreciation. I'm a woman and I'm tired of women complaining that their husbands have become something terrible without doing anything about it. We always make our men responsible for making us feel good about ourselves, because we're sleeping with them. Sex is everywhere, and there is a woman out there ready and willing to do what you won't do and may not complain. If he knew he was going to end up feeling this way he probably would not have married you. Most men cheat for SEX, ATTENTION, and APPRECIATION. Do something quick before you'll be eating your words and bitching about how he fucked around and left you.

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Authored by: Anonymous on Wednesday, January 31 2007 @ 01:17 AM UTC

Excuse ME!!!! Whoever wrote this is an idiot. No matter what a woman does, she does not deserve to be treated like shit....it is not her fault in any way, shape or form. If Dr. Phil saw YOU using reference to his name...!!!
If you think you have to bow down to your hubby for him to respect you...I feel sorry for you. You are the one with the real problems.
A man is NOT superiour to a woman, and no women deserves to be treated like a mule!
To the woman who had the original comment...you don't deserve how he treats you, I'm sure you try your hardest at all you do....
Maybe that other woman should shut up and get back to the kitchen! What! isn't that what your "hubby" would say to you?

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Authored by: Anonymous on Wednesday, August 10 2005 @ 07:11 AM UTC

Yeah, have you ever considered that your husband may have a health issue? Maybe high blood pressure or on his way to a heart attack or a stroke? Eating like a pig is a sign of depression and so is his attitude. While all you're doing is sitting back and complaining you could be a decent wife and make him a doctors appointment. Show him that you're concerned about him and stop wishing death on your husband and your childrens father. It makes me sick how women forget "the man he used to be". Something may be wrong and you just might be the one to help fix it. Wives have babies, swell up, never lose the weight, get bigger, stop screwing the way they used to, get depressed and a man is supposed to understand all this shit. Now here you are calling him a Fat Hog. Maybe you are his problem. His friends don't see the change. YOU DO. Ring a bell? Never mind Creator and his outside comments about your man. He doesn't have a husband, and I'm sure his wife would look a litte deeper if he had suddenly become a radical pig, or asshole. And by the way if he's working hard and paying the bills, I'm sure he could find another wife and kids...before you'd find another husband. Wake up!

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Authored by: Anonymous on Wednesday, January 31 2007 @ 01:24 AM UTC

Excuse ME!!!! Whoever wrote these replies is an idiot. No matter what a woman does, she does not deserve to be treated like shit....it is not her fault in any way, shape or form. If Dr. Phil saw YOU using reference to his name...!!!
If you think you have to bow down to your hubby for him to respect you...I feel sorry for you. You are the one with the real problems.
A man is NOT superiour to a woman, and no women deserves to be treated like a mule!
To the woman who had the original comment...you don't deserve how he treats you, I'm sure you try your hardest at all you do....
Maybe that other woman should shut up and get back to the kitchen! What! isn't that what your "hubby" would say to you?
Maybe she does all that she can to try and make him happy and he is still and ASS! Shame on you for blaming this poor woman.

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