Okay, here's the deal. I work with you. I like you as a person. We get along fine at work, but in case you haven't noticed I haven't invited you over and I won't. I listen to you talk and you say a lot about what you do and such and despite the fact that we have a workable work relationshp I will not have you around my home or in my life. I have sized you up and I simply do not like the fact that you are so effing materialistic. You are one of hundreds of my acquaintances but you are not my friend. I have a few people who I call my friends, end of story. Get this, there is a dfference between friends and acquaintances. Don't invite me over to your home. I won't come, because I have no intentions of inviting you back. I will find an excuse if you do, so DON'T! That goes for your other friend who invited me and I didn't go either. Got the picture? Thanks.