Let me just start off this message by stating that I totally regret getting married and the only good thing I got out of this marriage are my kids.
My husband thinks he is god’s gift to mankind. I must have missed the day that God came from the heavens and said “Behold, here he is, he is the best thing since sliced bread”.
My husband has the type of intelligence that is deemed book smart. This means he has no common sense whatsoever. He has no concept of what it means to have a semi-clean house. He was off today; I asked him to pick up the house just a bit, so I could come home and finish my homework. I came into the house and there is dirty clothes falling out of the laundry room, he half filled the dishwasher and ran it with no soap, he has pop cans all over the kitchen and family room because he is too lazy to walk the five feet to the recycle bin, dirty socks stuffed under the couch and table, and I find him sitting watch TV and playing on the computer. My daughter looked like she was playing in trash with her mismatched clothes, something stuck in her hair and marker all over her face. When I asked what happened I got a shrug. She didn’t even get her medicine today.
My husband is also very mean and vindictive. He hates my son because he is not like him. He says he loves him but does not like him. My son can be very emotional, so instead of de-escalating a situation, he teases my son to get him to cry more and then calls him a baby. He is very physically and emotionally abusive to my kids. He has not really hurt them yet but I am sure he will someday. He is the same way with me, when we argue, and he is losing he likes to insult my intelligence. Or go out of his way to make me feel that I am scum and my family and I are trash.
My husband loves to rub it in my face that he has a higher degree than I do, and that it is all my fault that our family can’t afford to move out of our small house into something bigger, that it is my fault that we can’t have nicer cars and that we can’t save money for the kids college funds. So I am busting my buns to get my degree, which requires me to be gone from my family more. So when I busy trying to finish my homework he is mad that I am not paying attention to him.
My husband has gotten very fat. He basically has bigger breasts than I do. However he prances around the house like he is Adonis. I feel like gagging, and he wonders why I don’t feel like being intimate.
I am bidding my time, soon I will have my degree and my promotion and I will pack up my kids and be gone. Or perhaps, I should push him into the arms of another woman so I would have a reason to divorce him and I’ll take him to the bank!!!
JustRage
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