I was married and had 2 kids. My husband would go drinking every night throught the years and eventually it got to the point where he was coming home at like 8:00 a.m., he had all kinds of girls phone numbers in his cell phone, he stopped paying all the bills. HIs car got repossessed(it was in my name). I had to file bankruptcy because of all this! Then he stopped paying the house payment - didn't care- never watched the kids but would lie on the couch all day till like 4:00pm. sleeping. He would go to work around 5:00 pm and work until about 10:00pm. then go drinking all night and sleep all day! Maybe if he came home and slept he could of actually got another job to pay bills!!! I was working , going to school and doing EVERYTHING, I finally divorced that piece of shit I was left with nothing!!!! I am almost 40 and have nothing because of him. He had everything- a house, an acre of land, kids, a wife who would do anything. and all he said was that I was a bitch. And he's always behind in child support and never sees his kids- he's too busy with his new girlfriend to spend anytime with his kids!!
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