Fiestybitch raged 2 years ago ——
Ok, so i've been with my man for a year now and things are cool, or at least they are now. At the beginning of this year, we went through a very rough patch. He was paying off debt that his friend had got him into which left him short, he was having problems at home and he was being harassed by a gang of yobs. Where we live, there are a lot of yobs who hang about and cause trouble. I avoid going out at night, and even in the day i have to be wary. I have been harassed myself so i know how scary and intimidating it can be. Well anyway, whenever he would walk over to my place at night, he would get followed, shouted at, threatened and insulted. Most of them were boys, some were girls. He didn't tell me about this until it was too late. When i say too late, i mean he had told me after i ended our relationship, and the reason i broke up with him is because he was abusing me. He would take his frustrations out on me. I was his punchbag, his play thing and a robot with no feelings to control, manipulate and order about. I was his anger sponge to take his insults, critisism, snide remarks and lies. I had to take his shit. I am the one that was punished for what those cunts put him through. So ok, i know what you're thinking, why couldn't he be a real man and stand up to these fuckers instead of venting his anger out on me? The truth is, he couldn't. He was outnumbered and he is not your average manly build. There would be no chance for him. I am taller and broader than him but im as weak as a kitten when it came to our fights. He always managed to resrain me and i was powerless. Altogether, he has punched, slapped, kicked, pushed, grabbed, bit, throttled me and pulled my hair. He has never actually punched me in the face but in the head. Oh he was careful where he landed his blows so that nobody could see any bruises. And of course i told no one. I kept forgiving him and giving him more chances. He would always say sorry and buy me flowers after most beatings. I was foolish enough to believe him. But one day i had had enough and i decided that our relationship was over. I text him to tell him as i was afraid to do it face to face and left it at that. For the next few days he bombaded me with pleading texts, presents and waiting outside my front door at night begging me to let him come in to talk. I refused, and had to call the police. It was so stressful, and i live with an elderly lady who has a disibility. So that didn't help. BUT within weeks i was back with him and i was surprised to see that he had stuck to his promise to change his ways. He did not lay his hands on me. I gradually started to trust him again and we fell in love. Things have been good between us, but now he's being harassed again. This time it's girls. And it's sexual harassment. He gets it almost every day and it doesn't matter where he is, who he's with or the time of day, he always gets fucking harassed by these sluts. It's all because he looks different to other guys and he stands out. And it's the area we are living in. He's been groped, called names, prick teased and followed. And there is nothing he can do about it because he's a man. He can't have them done because the police won't take it seriously, he can't give them a fucking smack or push them away because HE will be the one in trouble otherwise and i am not going to get involved either. So he's fucked. I feel sorry for him because i know how maddening it is, especially for a man. I think the worst part about it is that many people would turn around and laugh at him and tell him that he's a 'pussy' or that he should be 'enjoying it'. Society is so unfair and sexist. We are supposed to be civil and modern but i honestly think we behave worse than animals! So he is getting this crap, he can't defend himself and what do you think he goes and does? Use me. He came in last night and i was on my phone internet. I was messaging someone on here and when i was done i came off the internet. Then i turned to focus my attention on him. But when i put his arm around me, he pulled away. Feeling hurt and rejected, i asked him what his problem was. He started moaning about me using my phone and something inside me snapped. I told him if he didn't like it, go home. The next thing i knew, he had me pinned down and was tugging my hair. I somehow managed to get him off me or he let me go (i can't remember) and ran to the corner of the room. I was clutching my arm which was hurting and hissed at him that i hated him. Of course i didn't mean it but i was in shock and angry that he had just attacked me because i put my foot down. He then called me a bitch and told me to fuck off. I was so hurt. I went downstairs and i heard him say something about me 'hiding something from him'. My gran noticed staight away that something was wrong and i couldn't hide it from her. She told my bf to go home and i was left feeling livid at what he had done. Later in the night, i let him come back. He was all apologies and then told me yet another story about his harassment issues. He said he didn't mean to get angry with me, he was just mad at the girl who harassed him that day. So now we are ok and have made up, but im still rather pissed at him? I know what he did was wrong and he admitted but im sick of taking his problems in this way. I did not deserve to be treated like that because of that stupid cunt ass bitch who harassed him. Sigh, what next?